Why You Shouldn’t Order a Cappuccino in Italy After 11am

You’ve probably heard the oft-repeated story that you should never, ever order a cappuccino in Italy after 11am, or that if you do make that heinous mistake you will be roundly criticized or won’t get your coffee or you’ll be laughed at or some such nonsense.

As with most cultural rumors, there’s a basis of truth to this story that is usually blown out of proportion. Here’s the lowdown, with a little bit of history.

Monks and Monkeys and Coffee

Portrait of a Capuchin, by Jan Zasiedatel

Portrait of a Capuchin, by Jan Zasiedatel

The word “cappuccino” as it relates to coffee is a pretty recent association – sometime in the late 1940s, according to popular wisdom. The root of the word, however, dates back much further.

In Italian, the word “cappuccio” means “hood,” and any word with “-ino” at the end means it’s little or somehow cute. “Cappuccino,” then, can be taken to mean “little hood” – referring in this case to the hood that was worn by an order of Franciscan monks starting in the early 1500s.

These were called Capuchin monks, or – in Italian – Cappuccini.

A few centuries later, when scientists were giving out names to primates, they bestowed the name “capuchin” on a species of monkey with coloring that the scientists thought resembled the hoods worn by Capuchin monks.

There’s no definitive line on when frothy milk and coffee were first combined, but the drink we know today as a cappuccino was first patented in 1901. It wasn’t until the late 1940s, though, that the word “cappuccino” made its way into common usage. And, again, the name was given to the drink because the color reminded someone of those robes worn by Capuchin monks.

The monks may not have invented the cappuccino, but it’s thanks to them that this beloved beverage has its name.

The Famous Cappuccino Rule

Cappuccino || creative commons photo by Simon Law

Cappuccino || creative commons photo by Simon Law

Now to get to the root of the admonition that you never order a cappuccino after 11am.

The main thing to understand is that this has nothing to do with the cappuccino, and everything to do with milk.

Italians, you see, are obsessed with digestion. They think about it a lot. It’s not a taboo topic, and in fact is the subject of many, many commercials on Italian TV. Browse the yogurt aisle of any Italian grocery store to see how many containers promote themselves as digestive aids. (Remember Activia? It’s still a big deal in Italy.)

Consuming milk after a meal, Italians believe, will totally screw up your digestion. And since that’s not something they are wont to do, they avoid milk when eating. Breakfast doesn’t count, because Italian breakfast typically consists of a coffee drink and a pastry and that’s it. If your coffee drink of choice is a cappuccino, then the milk is sort of part of the meal in that case.

But ordering a cappuccino or other milk-based drink after lunch or after dinner? An Italian would never.

Here’s the thing, though – if you’re not Italian, or if you are and you don’t subscribe to the milk-destroys-digestion theory, go ahead and order whatever milky coffee drink you want at any time of day. In most bigger or more touristy cities, they’re probably used to this odd (to them) request and will just make it with no questions asked.

In some places, however, opinionated waiters may give you a weird look or try to tell you why it’s a bad idea. But chances are good that you’ll get whatever coffee drink you’re paying for – even if the waiter is saying a silent prayer for your gastro-intestinal system as you drink it.

And now, at least, if the waiter flat out refuses, you’ll understand that he or she is really just looking out for you.

16 responses to “Why You Shouldn’t Order a Cappuccino in Italy After 11am”

  1. I love the way you tied this to the monks and the monkeys! Fun history!

    My Italian friends would never order one immediately after eating say pasta or salad, especially anything with tomatoes. However, in the late afternoon on a chilly day, when lunch is long gone, they would order a cappuccino and perhaps eat it with a biscotto.

    • Jessica says:

      Well, that’s good to know!

    • Gunilla says:

      I have noticed this – in a bar in Prati Rome – some ladies were having coffee in the afternoon – rather often – they sat down, had a nice talk – stayed for a while – they had capuccino and some sweets….
      It looked nice, social….

  2. The flat out refusal – sort of funny, except when you’ve found yourself in the situation! Try ordering whipped cream on top of a citrus gelato… or an orange before bedtime – fuggedaboutit!

    • Jessica says:

      It’s always sort of amusing to me, even the flat-out refusals – but only because I know they’re not being mean for the sake of being mean. And also because I’m perfectly content with a plain old coffee. 🙂

  3. Valerie says:

    Wow, you really researched this one! 🙂 I’m among the admonished for ignorantly ordering a cappuccino in the afternoon (fresh off the boat, so to speak). I took a poll recently of my Italian friends and only two said they would drink one after 11:00. My barista, who has had her bar for 40 years, says she has never once had anyone order one in the afternoon (until I did on a cold day!)

  4. Nice article. It explains a lot and also explains my mother’s refusal to serve us children milk with pasta and tomato sauce for dinner. Soda it had to be!

  5. Adriana says:

    Nice article Jessica!
    Im doing an investigation about Italian traditions and this sort of “rules”. And after reading this I couldn’t help but wonder.. what about gelato, which is totally milk-based? Im guessing this 11 am rule doesn’t apply…?

  6. Gigi says:

    I’ve been visiting Italy for 30 years and all of these rules are such nonsense. Ask any Italian why gelato right after a meal is perfectly acceptable but not capuccino? -Watch them fumble around for an answer, then abruptly change the subject. It’s as ridiculous as the notion that air conditioning makes you ill. “The chill will cause a cold” is uttered like gospel among the natives and frankly I’m convinced they just like to create rules to occupy their time and criticize others for not abiding by them!

    • Jessica says:

      Even if I don’t understand or agree with someone’s beliefs, I’m still curious about them – and usually try to respect them, so long as they don’t inconvenience me. 🙂

  7. Valeria says:

    I love cappuccinos, they make my day! I enjoy finding
    easy ways to make my cup of joe.

  8. Bullhead says:

    Obsessed with “digestion”? As an Italian myself, this sounds pretty new to me, ahahahah. Who told you that joke? Cappuccino is meant to be a cafe-breakfast thing…that is the reason, maybe.

    • Jessica says:

      It’s not a joke, just based on years of observation and conversations with expats and Italians alike. 🙂

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